ေအာင္ျမင္သူနဲ႔က်႐ႈံးသူရဲ႕ ကဲြျပားခ်က္.....

ေအာင္ျမင္သူနဲ႔က်႐ႈံးသူရဲ႕ ကဲြျပားခ်က္

(၁) ေအာင္ျမင္သူက ကိုယ့္ကိုယ္ အရင္ေျပာင္းလဲဖို႔သိတယ္။
က်႐ႈံးသူက ေလာကႀကီးကိုပဲ ေျပာင္းလဲခ်င္ခဲ့တယ္။

(၂) ေအာင္ျမင္သူက ေအာင္ျမင္ဖို႔ နည္းလမ္းရွာတယ္။
က်႐ႈံးသူက က်႐ႈံးမႈအတြက္ ဆင္ေျခရွာတယ္။

(၃) ေအာင္ျမင္သူက အခက္အခဲတစ္ခါႀကံဳတိုင္း အခြင့္အေရးတစ္ခုကိုေတြ႔တယ္။
က်႐ႈံးသူက အခြင့္အေရးတိုင္းမွာ အခက္အခဲကို အရင္ေတြ႔တယ္။

(၄)ေအာင္ျမင္သူက ဒုကၡအခက္အခဲႀကံဳခ်ိန္ တျခားသူ လက္ေလ်ာ့ေနာက္ဆုတ္သြားသည့္တိုင္ ကိုယ့္ရည္ရြယ္ခ်က္ပန္းတိုင္ကို အေရာက္လွမ္းဖို႔ ဆံုးျဖတ္ခ်က္ခ်ႏိုင္သူျဖစ္တယ္။

က်႐ႈံးသူက ဒုကၡအခက္အခဲမရွိလည္း ဦးတည္ရာေပ်ာက္ေနသူျဖစတယ္။

(၅)ေအာင္ျမင္သူက ေလာကႀကီးမွာ ေမွ်ာ္လင့္ခ်က္ကင္းေစတဲ့အရာဆိုတာ မရွိဘဲ ေမွ်ာ္လင့္ခ်က္မဲ့တဲ့လူပဲ ရွိတယ္ဆိုတာကို သိသူျဖစ္တယ္။

က်႐ႈံးသူက အရာတိုင္းကို ေမွ်ာ္လင့္ခ်က္မဲ့ေနသူျဖစ္တယ္။

(၆)ေအာင္ျမင္သူက တစ္ပါးသူရဲ႕႐ႈေထာင့္ကေန ကိစၥရပ္ကိုၾကည့္တယ္။ တစ္ပါးသူရဲ႕ ခံစားခ်က္ကို နားလည္ေအာင္လုပ္တယ္။

က်႐ႈံးသူက ကိုယ္က်ဳိးအတြက္ပဲ စိုးရိမ္ပူပန္တတ္သူျဖစ္တယ္။

(၇) ေအာင္ျမင္သူက အက်င့္သီလကို ပထမ၊ ၾကြယ္ဝခ်မ္းသာမႈကို ဒုတိယေနရာထားသူျဖစ္တယ္။

က်႐ႈံးသူက ဆန္႔က်င္စြာနဲ႔ ၾကြယ္ဝခ်မ္းသာမႈေနာက္လိုက္ၿပီး အက်င့္သီလကို ေနာက္ခ်န္ထားသူျဖစ္တယ္။

(၈)ေအာင္ျမင္သူ ေအာင္ျမင္ရျခင္းက ကိုယ္ေအာင္ျမင္မယ္ဆိုတာကို ယံုၾကည္ထားလို႔ျဖစ္တယ္။
က်႐ႈံးသူ ႐ႈံးနိမ့္ရျခင္းက ကိုယ္ေအာင္ျမင္မယ္လို႔ မယံုၾကည္ရဲသူျဖစ္တယ္။

(၉)ေအာင္ျမင္သူက စိတ္ထိခိုက္ဝမ္းနည္းစရာနဲ႔ ႀကံဳတဲ့အခါ ကိုယ့္ကိုသင္ယူစရာ၊ လုပ္စရာေတြနဲ႔ သိမ္းက်ံဳးလုပ္ေနတတ္တယ္။

က်႐ႈံးသူက စိတ္ထိခိုက္ဝမ္းနည္းစရာနဲ႔ ႀကံဳတဲ့အခါ သက္ျပင္းအခါခါခ်ၿပီး အဲဒီခံစားခ်က္ထဲမွာပဲ ရုန္းမရေအာင္ နစ္ဝင္ေနတတ္တယ္။

(၁ဝ) ေအာင္ျမင္သူက လုပ္စရာရွိတာကို ခ်က္ခ်င္းထလုပ္တတ္သူျဖစ္တယ္။
က်႐ႈံးသူက လြယ္ကူတဲ့ကိစၥကိုေတာင္ အခ်ိန္ဆဲြၿပီး လုပ္တတ္သူျဖစ္တယ္။

(၁၁)ေအာင္ျမင္သူက ကိုယ့္ထက္ေတာ္သူ၊ ထက္ျမက္သူကို ေလးစားအားက်ၿပီး သူတို႔ရဲ႕ေကာင္းကြက္ကို ႀကိဳးစားသင္ယူေလ့ရွိတယ္။

က်႐ံႈးသူက ကိုယ့္ထက္ေတာ္သူ၊ ထက္ျမက္သူကို မနာလိုမုန္းတီးၿပီး သူတို႔ရဲ႕ဆိုးကြက္ကိုပဲ ရွာေနတတ္တယ္။

(၁၂)ေအာင္ျမင္သူရဲ႕ စိတ္ထိခိုက္၊ စိတ္အေႏွာင့္အယွက္ျဖစ္ေစတဲ့အရာေတြက ျပင္ပေလာက,က လာတာျဖစ္တယ္။

က်႐ႈံးသူရဲ႕ စိတ္ထိခိုက္၊ စိတ္အေႏွာင့္အယွက္ျဖစ္ေစတဲ့အရာေတြက သူတို႔အတြင္းစိတ္ထဲက လာတာျဖစ္တယ္။

(၁၃) ေအာင္ျမင္သူက အျမင့္ကိုတက္လွမ္းႏိုင္ဖို႔ အာသီသျပင္းထန္တယ္။
က်႐ႈံးသူက ႀကံ့ႀကံ့ခံႏိုင္ဖုိ႔ အာသီသမရွိဘူး။

(၁၄) ေအာင္ျမင္သူအတြက္ အဖိုးတန္ဆံုးအရင္းအႏွီးက ေမွ်ာ္လင့္ခ်က္ျဖစ္တယ္။
က်႐ႈံးသူအတြက္ အႀကီးမားဆံုးမဲြေတမႈက ေမွ်ာ္လင့္ခ်က္မဲ့တာပဲျဖစ္တယ္။

(၁၅) ေအာင္ျမင္သူက အခြင့္အေရးကို ဖန္တီးတယ္။
က်႐ႈံးသူက အခြင့္အေရးကို ေစာင့္တယ္။

(၁၆) ေအာင္ျမင္သူက ယံုၾကည္မႈေတြကုိ မျပတ္ေမြးျမဴတယ္။
က်႐ႈံးသူက ယံုၾကည္မႈဆိုတာ ေမြးရာပါဗီဇလို႔ ယံုသူျဖစ္တယ္။

(၁၇)ေအာင္ျမင္သူက ရွည္လ်ားတဲ့လမ္းေတြကို တစ္လမ္းခ်င္းနဲ႔ အဆံုးထိ ေလွ်ာက္ႏိုင္မယ္ဆိုတာကို ယံုၾကည္ထားသူျဖစ္တယ္။

က်႐ႈံးသူက တိုေတာင္းတဲ့လမ္းျဖစ္လည္း ေရွ႕ေျခတစ္လွမ္းမတိုးရင္ အဆံုးထိေလွ်ာက္ႏိုင္မွာ မဟုတ္ဘူးဆိုတာကို မသိသူျဖစ္တယ္။

(၁၈) ေအာင္ျမင္သူက အလုပ္မလုပ္ခင္ အရင္ေတြးေတာႀကံစည္တယ္။
က်႐ႈံးသူက အလုပ္မလုပ္ခင္ ေတြေဝၿပီး အလုပ္ၿပီးခ်ိန္ ေနာင္တရတတ္သူျဖစ္တယ္။

(၁၉) ေအာင္ျမင္သူက ခရီးလမ္းမွာ တစ္ခါတရံရပ္နားၿပီး အနားယူေလ့ရွိတယ္။
က်႐ႈံးသူက မၾကာခဏရပ္နားၿပီး ေတာင္ေတာင္ေျမာက္ေျမာက္ ေငးတတ္သူျဖစ္တယ္။

(၂ဝ) ေအာင္ျမင္သူက ေနရာတစ္ခုတည္းမွာ ႏွစ္ႀကိမ္လဲမက်ဘူး။
က်႐ႈံးသူက တစ္ေနရာမွာ လဲက်ၿပီးေနာက္ ျပန္မထေတာ့ဘူး။

(၂၁) ေအာင္ျမင္သူက ေလွ်ာက္ခဲ့တဲ့လမ္းကို ျပန္ၾကည့္တတ္တယ္။
က်႐ႈံးသူက ေလွ်ာက္ခဲ့တဲ့လမ္းကို ျပန္ေလွ်ာက္တတ္တယ္။

ႏိုင္းႏိုင္းစေန မွရယူပါသည္....

ေနာက္ကၽြန္ေတာ္ သြားၾကည္႔ျဖစ္တဲ့ ေအာင္ျမင္သူနဲ႔က်႐ႈံးသူရဲ႕ ကဲြျပားခ်က္ေတြ အဂၤလိပ္လိုေရးထားတဲ့ ဆိုဒ္တခုက differences-between-winners-and-losers ကိုျပန္လည္မွ်ေဝပါတယ္။

Differences Of Winners and Losers

Successful people are winners in our society. But what are the factors that make them so different from others? I have pondered about this question for a while and I found that there are some striking differences between winners and losers. Winners operate in a totally different frame of mind compared to losers and that is why they always got the results that losers dream of. So read on for the list of 33 differences between winners and losers.

Striking Differences Between Winners and Losers

	Winners	Losers
1	Winners focus on solutions.	Losers focus on problems.
2	Winners take responsibility.	Losers blame others.
3	Winners find opportunities in crisis.	Losers complain about crisis.
4	Winners enjoy being in the present and learn from the past.	Losers live in the past.
5	Winners make commitment and keep them no matter what.	Losers make promises that they always break.
6	Winners think about how they can achieve.	Losers give excuses.
7	Winners make personal development a priority.	Losers neglect personal development.
8	Winners face their fear, accept it and take the leap.	Losers dwell in their fear.
9	Winners constantly expand their comfort zone.	Losers stay in their comfort zone.
10	Winners take action consistently.	Losers refrain from taking action and lack consistency.
11	Winners take failure in their stride and learn from them.	Losers fear failure and avoid them at all cost.
12	Winners try different strategies when they are not getting the results they want.	Losers do the same thing over and over again expecting different results.
13	Winners set goals.	Losers lack goals.
14	Winners plan.	Losers hate having a plan.
15	Winners believe there are always things to be learn.	Losers consider themselves as an expert even though they know little.
16	Winners are humble.	Losers are egoistic.
17	Winners continue to hone their skill every other day without fail.	Losers make little effort in honing their skill.
18	Winners work hard.	Losers avoid work.
19	Winners give their best for the things that they decide to do.	Losers work half heartedly in everything that they do.
20	Winners are persistent and will do whatever it takes (ethical means) to achieve their goal.	Losers give up when obstacles pop up.
21	Winners manage their time well and indulge in high value activities that will bring them closer to their goals.	Losers lack time management skills and indulge in time wasting activities like playing games and watching re runs for the umpteen time.
22	Winners dream in the day.	Losers dream in bed.
23	Winners think about possibilities.	Losers focus on obstacles that will stop them from achieving.
24	Winners are certain.	Losers doubt.
25	Winners control their own destiny.	Losers leave everything to their fate.
26	Winners give more than they take.	Losers take more than they give.
27	Winners think whether the crowd is going in the right direction. If not, he will walk the other direction.	Losers follow the crowd.
28	Winners think and lead.	Losers refuse to think so they follow.
29	Winners listen.	Losers fight for every chance to talk.
30	Winners always find a better way to do things.	Losers stick to one way of doing things.
31	Winners spend money in seminars and classes to improve themselves.	Losers think that spending money on seminars and classes is a waste of money and they prefer to buy toys that gives them instant gratification.
32	Winners help others to win.	Losers refuse to help and think only about their own benefit.
33	Winners find like minded people like themselves that can bring them to greater height.	Losers find like minded people like themselves that will drag them to failure.

Parting Words

Winners and losers are largely differentiated by their way of thinking. It means that if your thinking tend to be nearer to the Losers approach, it is possible for you to shift yourself back to the Winners way of thinking. All you need is to be 100% honest with yourself, admit that some part of your life needs to be change and work on it.

So which side are you on?

Vincent

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